Call Me. A few weeks ago I was talking with a new client and she was telling me about the last guy she had dated.  She said they got along great, had fun together but she never talked to him between dates because all he would do was text her. "Really, he never called you?" "Nope, he did everything by text, even asking me out on dates.  I'd leave him a voicemail, he'd text me in reply.  I'd text him to call me, he'd text me back asking what was up." TEXTATIONSHIPS. On one of their last dates as they were talking he said something…

Relationship Books - Advice Galore. There are a lot of relationship books out there these days to help both men and women find that perfect someone. To name just a few: 10 Rules to Finding a Mate How to Find a Husband How to find Mr. or Ms. Right Bewitch a Man: How to Find Him and Keep Him Under Your Spell Find Them, Keep Them, Marry Them You get the idea; there are a lot of books out there!  What these books teach you is obvious from…

Should you look for someone just like you? I recently read an article (Denver Post 9/2/08) interviewing Keith Swain, a couples therapist, and some other relationship experts. The article focused on one theory of a good match. It's a question I get all the time, "how do you match people?" Well, Keith suggests that you look for someone a little different from you. But there is a lot of disagreement on all sides. Some excerpts Keith has some key points to make. His theory is that some people are alpha, meaning they focus on careers, finances, success,…