Bill Husted, of the Denver Post, recently interviewed dating coach, author and Denverite Rachel Greenwald about her new book, "Why He Didn't Call You Back." During the interview he asked her this question - Should women send a thank you email after a date? Her answer, "Never. She's chasing him, and if a guy likes you, he wants to do the chasing." One of my matchmaking clients (a woman) recently asked me what I thought of her answer and did I agree.  I don't think it's as easy as saying never. Scenarios Let's look at a couple scenarios to…

Relationship Books - Advice Galore. There are a lot of relationship books out there these days to help both men and women find that perfect someone. To name just a few: 10 Rules to Finding a Mate How to Find a Husband How to find Mr. or Ms. Right Bewitch a Man: How to Find Him and Keep Him Under Your Spell Find Them, Keep Them, Marry Them You get the idea; there are a lot of books out there!  What these books teach you is obvious from…

Should you look for someone just like you? I recently read an article (Denver Post 9/2/08) interviewing Keith Swain, a couples therapist, and some other relationship experts. The article focused on one theory of a good match. It's a question I get all the time, "how do you match people?" Well, Keith suggests that you look for someone a little different from you. But there is a lot of disagreement on all sides. Some excerpts Keith has some key points to make. His theory is that some people are alpha, meaning they focus on careers, finances, success,…

During the 2007 International Matchmaker's Conference held in NYC, I was able to speak with nationally recognized matchmaker, Patti Novak. If you haven't seen her television show "Confessions of a Matchmaker" on A&E you should check it out!Patti is a tough, "say it as she see's it" sort of gal! The style works for her and she has great success with her clients.  For me, well I'm just not so blunt, if you'd like me to be let me know, I'm happy to oblige!  Check out Patti's show and then if I ever give you feedback you aren't thrilled to hear let…