Bill Husted, of the Denver Post, recently interviewed dating coach, author and Denverite Rachel Greenwald about her new book, "Why He Didn't Call You Back." During the interview he asked her this question - Should women send a thank you email after a date? Her answer, "Never. She's chasing him, and if a guy likes you, he wants to do the chasing." One of my matchmaking clients (a woman) recently asked me what I thought of her answer and did I agree.  I don't think it's as easy as saying never. Scenarios Let's look at a couple scenarios to…

Should a woman make a man chase them? We've all heard about or joined in the games people play when they first start dating. Both men and women play them. As a matter of fact there are plenty of books out there that encourage you to play games, though most of these books consider them "strategies." The games daters play. For example, when a guy meets a woman and says "I'll call" he should wait 5 days to call, he doesn't want too appear to excited. On the flip side, a woman shouldn't appear too eager and she needs to…