Do all guys really like raunchy talk? 

I was recently talking with a client and the subject of sex came up.  During the discussion, she said she didn’t really like talking dirty, but has been told guys really like it.  "Hmmm, I wonder if this is the case with all men?" I asked.  Well, as it turns out she had taken a small poll of some of her guy friends and they all said the same thing — "We Love it!"

The Research.

Of course I had to do some of my own research.  Seems that it’s mostly true, guys like the raunchy talk and for some of them the raunchier and more foul the language the better.  I’m not going to get into specific phrases though.  Now, through my own informal poll I found out the following:

• Some guys like to talk dirty on the phone, but prefer to skip it when in person.
• The majority of them said it really turns them on when she talks about what she is going to do to him.
• If she says something really super raunchy when she’s usually pretty bland it can be a turn off for some men, so much so they might laugh out loud.
• Dirty emails are great; all of the men I spoke to loved them, but not while they are at work – too distracting!

The Ladies Side.

In general, the women I talked to about this subject were pretty comfortable talking dirty to their guy.  Several said it took some getting used to and some practice to figure out what their man likes to hear. Some women talk dirty because they know it pleases their man, even if it makes her a bit uncomfortable. One interesting result of all my questioning — about 1/2 the women didn’t like being talked dirty to!

Do you like Dirty Talk?

So the men like it and the women don’t seem to mind doing the talking.  Do you like doing the talking?  or do you prefer to hear your mate talk dirty to you?  How about emails or phone calls, are they a turn on or turn off?  We’d love your opinion and input; let us know your thoughts!

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