Learning to Have Sex Appeal
Wednesday, November 12th, 2008Sex Appeal, a learned or inherent trait?
Author Stan Jones, an internationally recognized expert in body language, just released a new book called "Seven Days to Sex Appeal: How to Be Sexier Without Surgery, Weight Loss or Cleavage." He believes that sex appeal is something that can be learned and in his book, he and sensuality expert Eva Margolies provide a step by step guide for women on how to master the art of sex appeal and get noticed in any type of situation.
The basics.
The key, say the authors, is mastering effective gender signals like the proper way to sit, gaze and communicate vocally through body language that projects femininity instead of blatant physicality. During their research they discovered common behaviors essential to communicating sex appeal, or so they say.
My Opinion.
This is a similar argument to nature vs. nurture; can you learn to do something you are not inherently born with the ability to do? If you set your mind to it, practice and in this case study up, I think you can learn to have sex appeal. Some women just know how to use their body language and they just ooze sexy, other women try and fail miserably, coming across as goofy or in some cases just downright slutty. There is a fine line and ladies you need to learn it if you don’t already!
Your Opinion.
What do you think? Do you have that natural sex appeal or do you have to work at it? How would you describe it and do you have any tips or pointers for others trying to figure it out? Post and let us all know!
