Do Guys Need to Chase?
Tuesday, April 8th, 2008Should a woman make a man chase them?
We’ve all heard about or joined in the games people play when they first start dating. Both men and women play them. As a matter of fact there are plenty of books out there that encourage you to play games, though most of these books consider them "strategies."
The games daters play.
For example, when a guy meets a woman and says "I’ll call" he should wait 5 days to call, he doesn’t want too appear to excited. On the flip side, a woman shouldn’t appear too eager and she needs to play hard to get. The "strategies" go on and on.
The big question is, are any of these games necessary? The one I hear all the time from women is "I don’t want to appear too available or interested, so I need to make him chase me a bit."
So, is the game where the guy has to chase after the girl really necessary. Is this true guys? If a woman appears too available is that a turn off to you? or do you expect to have to chase her a bit?
Tags: available women, chasing, Dating, dating games, first dates