Are You Attractive?
Saturday, October 10th, 2009Do You Consider Yourself to be Good Looking?
When I meet with a client I typically discuss with them the looks of the person they are seeking. What are they attracted to? Do they have a particular type? I like to get an idea of what they will find attractive. However, I am constantly amazed by people’s vision of their match in comparison to their vision of themselves.
Take a Look Around.
The next time you go out, look at the couples you see. I mean really look at them! How do they compare to each other? In my experience, most couples are comprised of 2 people with a similar level of looks. Meaning on a scale of 1-10 both people are typically within a couple numbers of each other. He might be a 5 and she’s a 6 or 7 or maybe he’s an 8 and she’s a 6 or 7. Rarely do you see a guy or a gal who is a 9 or 10 with someone who is a 2 or 3.
What’s Your Number?
This is really a loaded question isn’t it? None of us want to be considered too full of ourselves or conceited, nor do many people want to admit that they are not attractive. What number do you want to date? Most importantly, are you being realistic? Sound off, let us know what you think!
Hi Sheryl,
That all sounds reasonable. I’d just like a good match for me. Someone around my age who takes care of themselves, and can carry their own baggage.
I’d like to sign up, but the site on my work computer won’t let me.
Thank you,
Lori