I frequently hear from the women I interview "I tend to like nerdy guys." However, when push comes to shove and I send them on a date with a nerdy guy, turns out maybe they don't like nerdy guys after all.  Maybe it's because they don't really know what a nerdy guy is. Seems they tend to like smart guys who are hot, which doesn't fit into the definition of nerd. So where does that leave the run of the mill nerd? What's the Difference? According to my web searching - nerds, geeks and dorks are all different.  A nerd…

We are Looking for a Great Woman for our Southern Gentleman. We are currently seeking a great woman for our southern bachelor.  The woman we are looking for is 45 - 55 with a cowgirl style.  She loves southern men and understands them.  She loves to be spoiled but would never take advantage if his southern hospitality.  She enjoys cultural activities such as the theater, but is just as comfortable at the Stock Show. Her Style. The woman we are seeking is a cowgirl at heart.  She may have grown up in the south or maybe even in the big city, but she…

After a man and woman have sex, who falls faster for the other, the man or the woman?

Do You Consider Yourself to be Good Looking? When I meet with a client I typically discuss with them the looks of the person they are seeking.  What are they attracted to?  Do they have a particular type?  I like to get an idea of what they will find attractive.  However, I am constantly amazed by people's vision of their match in comparison to their vision of themselves. Take a Look Around. The next time you go out, look at the couples you see.  I mean really look at them!  How do they compare to each other?  In my experience, most couples are…

Call Me. A few weeks ago I was talking with a new client and she was telling me about the last guy she had dated.  She said they got along great, had fun together but she never talked to him between dates because all he would do was text her. "Really, he never called you?" "Nope, he did everything by text, even asking me out on dates.  I'd leave him a voicemail, he'd text me in reply.  I'd text him to call me, he'd text me back asking what was up." TEXTATIONSHIPS. On one of their last dates as they were talking he said something…

I was recently talking with one of my clients about some of the women we've introduced him to.  These women have been great matches; he's liked several of them and has wanted to see them again.  Unfortunately, they haven't had an interest in seeing him again.  I asked him why he thought this was, what was the common denominator in all of these dates? His answer? They are all 55 or older. Why Doesn't She Want to See Him Again? He feels that women over 55 want to have that love at first site feeling again.  That experience of being swept off…

I’m always asked “What should I wear on my date?” The answer is always, “It depends.” Where are you going on your date?  What will you be doing?  If you are going to the Opera I would suggest something very different than if you are going to a Rockies or Bronco’s game. The Dinner Date By far though the most common date is the dinner date or lunch date.  These are a little more difficult to figure out what to wear.  Denver is a casual town and you’ll see jeans everywhere you go (including the theater and opera).  This makes being single…

Is the Exclusive Talk Really Necessary? I was recently speaking with a new client who was born and raised outside of the U.S. She asked me what I thought about the “exclusive” talk, you know that sit down, heart to heart where you ask the person you are dating if you…

Ladies, you've dated them, and guys, you might recognize if you've been one - The Puppy Dog.  That guy that is "too nice" after or during a first date.  He tries too hard, pays too many compliments, gushes about how wonderful she is, and just seems downright forlorn when the date ends - thus the puppy dog eyes. Mystery Gentlemen, pay attention - - ladies like a little mystery, a little intrigue, a little hard to get, but (and this is a big BUT), they also like nice guys.  So if you are a nice guy, how do you balance…

One of my clients was talking to me about a conversation she recently had where the guy was asking her what she was looking for in a man.  She mentioned intelligence, humor, stable both financially and emotionally but told him she didn't really care what he looked like or how tall he was. In response, he said, "Geez, you're really settling aren't you?" Your List. Everyone has a list of must have's and/or deal breakers when they are looking to meet their match.  The list typically has the important things on it, but can't possibly have everything on it.  Once you make…