Consider this before going on that date: When it comes to alcoholic beverages, how much is OK to drink on a date? Believe it or not, it's a tougher question than it sounds to answer. Factors to consider when trying to figure out how much to drink on a date: Do you follow his lead? her lead? Do you not drink at all? Do you limit yourself to 1 drink? 2 drinks? Does it depend on where you go on your date? Whether you are having…

Should a woman make a man chase them? We've all heard about or joined in the games people play when they first start dating. Both men and women play them. As a matter of fact there are plenty of books out there that encourage you to play games, though most of these books consider them "strategies." The games daters play. For example, when a guy meets a woman and says "I'll call" he should wait 5 days to call, he doesn't want too appear to excited. On the flip side, a woman shouldn't appear too eager and she needs to…

Just yesterday I was talking with a guy friend of mine and we some how got on the topic of age and looks.  We ended up discussing what he thinks is the disparity between how men are expected to look as they age and how women are expected to look.  According to him, men get to keep it natural - turn gray gracefully, put on a little weight around the middle, lose a little hair and it's just expected and ok.  Men are considered wiser when they are gray where as women are just considered older.  Is this fair?  Why…

I was recently having a discussion with a friend of mine, we'll call her Linda, about love.  Linda told me that her mom once advised her that in a relationship the man should love the woman more.  Well it got me thinking, is this true?  For a relationship to work does the man need to be more in love with the woman than she is with him? Linda recently took the advice to heart and stayed with a man she knew she didn't love the way he loved her.  She stayed because she thinks this statement should be true.  He loved…

Ever Google a date prior to going out with them? Ever wonder if there were more information about your potential date but sure wish you could find it? Well, now there are sites out there that let you search for your date via real name or online user name and allow you to read (or post) information about someone you have met online. While there are millions of people reviewed, be careful when reading the reviews, remember that they have been written by someone who has been burned in some way and it is only one side of the story. One…