This confident 43 year old man was born and raised in small town Colorado.  Now in the Denver area, he is seeking a down to earth and family oriented woman. If you like camping, hiking and spending time in the Colorado outdoors this guy might be for you. He has a great job; an adorable, yet quite large, dog; a close knit family; and a big heart.  He’s looking to share his life with a woman who understands the importance of family and is looking forward to having a family of her own.  She loves Colorado, has roots here and plans to make it her home until she’s old and gray. A great woman for this bachelor will live a balanced life – loving the mountains and the city, the great outdoors and a night at home, working out but being lazy sometimes too. She’s engaged in life, will love his homemade beer even if it tastes awful and isn’t opposed to his hunting trips – in fact she might even find new recipes!

This cool Bachelor is ready to settle down and start a family. His bachelorette should be 35-40 years old and ready to settle down too and start a family. She doesn’t have children yet, but would love to have some. She is laid back and easy going, will always welcome her man home with a kiss and a hello, has her act together and is comfortable with herself. She may not have gone to college, he didn’t, and she can easily talk to anyone but doesn’t talk their ear off. She must like cats, he’s got 2 adorable ones. She would be ok married to a work-a-holic, because she is independent and wouldn’t take it personally, though she’s very good at making him forget about work. Our Bachelor is mellow, and down to earth. She’s fit, he’d love a workout partner. She’s no prude, doesn’t drink too much, is a non-smoker and is close to her family. She should be interested in music and enjoy concerts, but no big party girls!

We are seeking a mature and sophisticated single woman for one of our clients in south Denver. The match for this sophisticated gentleman will be 60-72 years old, she is healthy, self actualized, educated, and feminine yet strong and independent at the same time.

Her Style:

This is one special woman. She has all the feminine qualities that most men like but is also strong and independent. She has a quiet confidence about her. She knows how to stand up for herself, but also when to back down. She is a worthy ally for him and will intellectually challenge him too. No worries, he’s not confrontational, but he is smart and likes a good discussion! She has a passion for life and lives each day to it’s fullest.

Conflict Resolution:

She knows how to fight fair and resolve conflict in a healthy way, always being respectful when bringing up her grievances or responding when he does. She has strong male role models in her life and knows how to form long term relationships, with several in her life.

More Details About Her:

See if some of these other details sound like you!

• She’s got strong social skills and can talk to most anyone.
• She enjoys good food and likes a nice glass of wine.
• Cooking in the kitchen with her partner sounds like a lot of fun!
• Politically she thinks about the issues and may lean more conservative.
• Religion is not an important part of her life, but she might be spiritual.
• She’s active and stays in shape, would be great if she would ski with him.
• Her children are grown and not at home anymore, but she may have wonderful grandchildren.
• She has a more sophisticated or elegant look and enjoys dressing up but looks good and feels comfortable in jeans too.

Are You His Perfect Match?

If you match all or most of the above description then we want to talk with you. Give us a call or email today to see if you are the perfect match!

After each date, I ask my clients to follow up with me and let me know how the date went.  I hear a lot of the same sort of feedback every time and pass along the same words of wisdom each time.  I thought it would be worth sharing these thoughts on date feedback with everyone, so after your next date you will be able to make a decision as to whether or not you want to see your date again!

My date’s hairstyle/clothes/shoes/glasses were outdated or not stylish.

This comment is usually preceded by “I know this is going to sound shallow, but…”  Yes, you do sound shallow.  These are all issues that can be addressed and fixed.   Maybe not right way, so you might have to suffer going out with your date a few more times with a less than trendy hairstyle, but hair, clothes, shoes, they can all be updated.  A personality flaw, well that’s a bit harder to fix.

He/she was too short/too tall/too heavy/too skinny

We all have perfect bodies and we should expect the same from our mate, right?  WRONG!  OK, I know, you are thinking – I’m not attracted to someone who is over-weight.  Fine, I get that, if you are fit and have a thinner physique you will probably connect better with someone similar because chances are they will be as active as you are.  If you aren’t so active and fit, maybe a partner built like you will help you both get back to better bodies.

Now I’m going to pick on each sex equally.  Ladies, I hear it all the time – “I need a man who is at least 6 ft. tall to make me feel ______.” Safe/small/secure/loved” – you fill in the blank.  Isn’t it more important that your man treat you like a princess, have similar beliefs and values, be smart, handsome and able to carry on an intelligent conversation?  Rather than focus on his height, look at all his other great qualities – and squeeze his bicep just for fun, chances are it will feel pretty good.  And wouldn’t you rather have some nice strong arms giving you a hug than no arms at all?

Now for the men.  “I’m just not attracted to a woman with ______.”  Short hair/brown hair/big hips/small boobs – you fill in the blank.  I understand that everyone has their preferences, but I’ll say the same thing I said to the ladies.  Isn’t it more important that you are attracted to her, enjoy the time you spend with her, and she likes some of the same things you like?  If you’ve never tried being with a woman that has a feature you don’t think you like, maybe you should give it a try, you might be surprised by the outcome.

My date talked too much/didn’t talk at all/grilled me/didn’t ask me any questions.

One of these things happens on most every date.  Maybe it’s you who committed the fault, maybe it was your date.  Either way, consider it a first date case of the nerves and give your date a second chance.  If you see the same thing happen on the 2nd date, fine, at least you gave it a shot.  If I had written off my husband the first time I met him because he didn’t pay for my french fries when we went out after the bar I wouldn’t be happily married 18 years.

Have you missed out on your perfect match because you didn’t give them a chance?  You’ll never know, but in the future, make sure you don’t miss out.  Have a thought on this topic? Post a reply, we’d love to hear what you have to say!