I frequently hear from the women I interview “I tend to like nerdy guys.” However, when push comes to shove and I send them on a date with a nerdy guy, turns out maybe they don’t like nerdy guys after all. Maybe it’s because they don’t really know what a nerdy guy is. Seems they tend to like smart guys who are hot, which doesn’t fit into the definition of nerd. So where does that leave the run of the mill nerd?
What’s the Difference?
According to my web searching – nerds, geeks and dorks are all different. A nerd is generally considered to be someone who is bookish and has above average intelligence. They generally don’t care much about their appearance and are sometimes focused on one particular hobby or activity such as gaming or comic books. A geek is a lot like a nerd with a bit more style. They have above average intelligence and tend to focus on technology. They do very well in school and as Urban Dictionary puts it, “they are the people we make fun of in school who we end up working for as adults.” A dork is generally an insult and most definitions state they are not smart, think they are cool, and are generally known for their quirky behavior. All may have some social awkwardness.
Who to Date – a Nerd, Geek or Dork?
It hasn’t always been easy for the nerds and geeks of the world to get a date. A lot of women take one look at the exterior and don’t bother to look further. But let me tell you, they sure know how to treat a woman. Generally inquisitive in nature, with the ability to remember details and willing to try just about anything to make their partner happy, well you couldn’t ask for better qualities! Able to talk about most any topic, cute romantic gestures, kind, and sweet you can’t beat dating a geek. The exterior? Take them shopping, help them out, they’re smart, they’ll learn! Socially awkward? Again, as long as you connect, this too can be overcome, remember, they’re smart! They can learn!
Sound off.
Are you a nerd? geek? dork? What’s been your dating experience? What are your struggles? Like to date nerds? Why? What has your experience been? We want to hear your opinion!