We are Looking for a Great Woman for our Southern Gentleman.

We are currently seeking a great woman for our southern bachelor.  The woman we are looking for is 45 – 55 with a cowgirl style.  She loves southern men and understands them.  She loves to be spoiled but would never take advantage if his southern hospitality.  She enjoys cultural activities such as the theater, but is just as comfortable at the Stock Show.

Her Style.

The woman we are seeking is a cowgirl at heart.  She may have grown up in the south or maybe even in the big city, but she loves the laid back ways of the ranch.  She knows how to ride a horse and she can two step with the best of them.  She is friendly and compassionate, with a huge heart. Best of all she knows how to make gravy!

Some More Details About Her.

Does this sound like you so far? Well read on for some more information and don’t worry if you aren’t a perfect match, get in touch anyway!

• Someday you’d love to go on a real roundup!
• You might root for the Broncos, but deep down you’re a Cowboys fan!
• Country music if your favorite and you might also love old time t.v. like Gunsmoke or Bonanza.
• You’d prefer to eat at a steak place over a sushi bar.
• Your children are grown or you don’t have any.
• You are loyal to a fault and have a great sense of humor.

Are You His Match?

If you are  a cowgirl at heart or know someone who is, get in touch with us! We’d love to meet you!

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The other evening, while heading out for date night with my husband, we were discussing the movie “500 Days of Summer.” I don’t want to spoil the movie for anyone, but basically boy meets girl, boy falls for girl, and well I’m not going to say anymore.  Our discussion centered around the fact that my husband insists that once a woman has sex with a guy he falls faster for her, while I insist that once a woman sleeps with a man she falls for him faster.

The Argument for the Man Falling Faster.

My husband’s argument is that women do not typically sleep around or take having sex with someone lightly.  Therefore, a guy knows that if he has sex with a woman, she must really like him already and it is now safe for him to fall head over heels for her.  He points out that my argument fails (see below) because there are in fact some women who sleep around and they don’t fall for the men at all.

The Argument for the Woman Falling Faster.

My argument is that women fall faster because after they have sex with a man something “chemically”  happens and they feel very attached to that man.  Having sex changes something for women. There is a whole body of research by Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist, showing how the chemicals in a woman’s body actually cause her to be more attracted to a man she sleeps with, especially if she has an orgasm.  These chemicals may even cause her to fall in love with the man.

Who Falls Faster?

It seems we have my biological argument and a more intellectual argument by my husband.  So the question is, who is right?  Are we both right?  What has been your experience?  Do women or men fall faster? Post your thoughts, we’d love to hear them!

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Do You Consider Yourself to be Good Looking?

When I meet with a client I typically discuss with them the looks of the person they are seeking.  What are they attracted to?  Do they have a particular type?  I like to get an idea of what they will find attractive.  However, I am constantly amazed by people’s vision of their match in comparison to their vision of themselves.

Take a Look Around.

The next time you go out, look at the couples you see.  I mean really look at them!  How do they compare to each other?  In my experience, most couples are comprised of 2 people with a similar level of looks. Meaning on a scale of 1-10 both people are typically within a couple numbers of each other. He might be a 5 and she’s a 6 or 7 or maybe he’s an 8 and she’s a 6 or 7.  Rarely do you see a guy or a gal who is a 9 or 10 with someone who is a 2 or 3.

What’s Your Number?

This is really a loaded question isn’t it? None of us want to be considered too full of ourselves or conceited, nor do many people want to admit that they are not attractive.  What number do you want to date? Most importantly, are you being realistic?  Sound off, let us know what you think!

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Call Me.

A few weeks ago I was talking with a new client and she was telling me about the last guy she had dated.  She said they got along great, had fun together but she never talked to him between dates because all he would do was text her.

“Really, he never called you?”

“Nope, he did everything by text, even asking me out on dates.  I’d leave him a voicemail, he’d text me in reply.  I’d text him to call me, he’d text me back asking what was up.”

TEXTATIONSHIPS.

On one of their last dates as they were talking he said something to the effect of “I guess were not that far in our Textationship.”  TEXTATIONSHIP?? So now there is a term for couples who do nothing but text each other?  She was stunned!  Urbandictionary.com defines Textationship as - a relationship based solely on texting. No phone conversations ever take place other than brief one sentence statements such as “I’m here, open the gate.”

What’s Next?

It’s such a connected world these days, with email, voice mail, texting, Facebook, LinkedIn, etc. we are becoming more and more disconnected from each other and this doesn’t help in the world of relationships.  You can’t truly get to know someone via text messaging and I certainly don’t believe you can fall in love with someone simply by spending your days texting.  What’s next, Twitterationships, where we communicate impersonally in 140 characters or less?

Sound Off.

What do you think?  Have you been in a textationship?  Do you know of one that has worked?  Do you think you can build a real, heartfelt relationship via texting?  Let us know your thoughts on the matter, we’d love to know!

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